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Very sad to read such stories RIP. My friend's roommate committed suicide at a different university here as well. Life is tough and so many young people are depressed but hide it well on the surface.
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Location: Queens, New York
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NYU seems to be an epicenter. I hear it is often a mix of heavy city life (which is new to a lot of the out of towners) and the general school pressures.
Last edited by FrankBooth0; 11-03-2009 at 06:01 PM. |
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Location: Making Marines, Winning Battles and Getting Drunk Since 1775.
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Interesting fact the majority of students who kill themselves are asian males, my sister was head of a suicide prevention group at Cornell. Someone shot themselves at Arizona State just last week also, sidenote.
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Location: The Republic of Singapore, but in Canada studying
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RIP |
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I was thinking maybe the school's location creates more social pressure on its students? Fordham and Columbia don't steal the media spotlight on student suicides like NYU does, and both of those schools are just as academically demanding on their students.
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Wow, I went to NYU... after a couple of people doing that at the library my senior year, they put up these tall plexi-glass barriers to try and stop it. Before, they just had these chest-high iron fences shaped like a crucifix when you look down at them.
That kid must have gone through a lot of effort to kill himself. I dunno, it's sad... the school is a really great place to be, but competitive as hell. Can't imagine what it's like for those Stern kids trying to get jobs. |
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I think it has more to do with what HG mentioned. Fordham & Columbia have the cred, but not the exposure like NYU has. That exposure to me is for more fantasy than fact. Time I spent there (For a program) didn't really impress me much but it felt stressful just to be in any of their buildings. I went to HS right across the street from their main campus.
Either they get more press because of who they are, or it is happening too often at this Uni. If the latter, than some reason needs to be present outside of the obvious and the personal. RIP |
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There's a lot of pressure socially and academically in university. Well, rest in peace. |
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I feel really sorry for this kid, that feeling of being bombarded one after another is a feeling I wish on no one. My first three weeks of high school I had one test for each class almost everyday and sometimes most of them on the same day making studying near impossible.
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People need to ****ing relax... I perhaps wasn't the best student there was out there but I ended up getting pretty good jobs just as the best guys did. Academics are one thing, real life situations aren't written in textbooks. |
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Before I got into medical school (naturopathic), I was always stressing out about my gpa, and how a B was going to destroy my gpa. |
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The reason why a lot of East Asians kill themselves is because the pressures of living as a part of a very stifling culture. Even if you are out of the country, you're not necessarily out of the community.
I'd continue but considering how much crap I got on the thread about the pissed off Iraqi guy who ran over his daughter I'll pass. |
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And as far as the Asians go, aside from costs and cultural differnces, etc., from my personal experience (I'm Chinese Canadian), Asian parents take school very, very seriously. It came to the point where I've been demoralized by mid 80s because all my parents could tell me was to get 90s next time. There are plenty of Chinese students in my course and they have citizenships and other legal things to worry about too. One of my classmates almost didn't make it back this year because he almost lost his student visa. |
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Location: Ottawa, Ont.
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I've heard first hand it's really competitive in east asia over grades and marks. Everybody is ranked, and everybody knows what each person got overall across the nation. It's like the olympics there. People jumping off balconies, it's pretty shocking, but I haven't heard of it here in Canada. You may have, but I haven't. Yes, I read your immigration post, and I agree with what you said. I can feel the heat across my screen. |
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